Sonntag, 12. Oktober 2014

Almost halftime

It's so sad how time flies by when having fun and trust me, dear readers, I'm having a lot of fun here in Finland! Well, recently I've rather been having problems with my flunssa I've been suffering from for one week now already and it just does not seem to get any better.
That's why I unfortunatel had to miss a concert which most likely would have been just awesome. But well... Sometimes there's just nothing one can do. Unfortunately.

I'm now here for already two months - arrived at the 12th of August - and three more months are still left. I will fly back to Germany on the 12th of January. So each 12th of a month I will talk about my progression.

Between the last 12th and today a new personal goal was born: I want to become a real Finn! In the end, I'd love to live here, work here, in best cases even have a partner here and whatnot. But I won't plan this far, I'm too much of a realist for that. But I want to achieve my goal by fulfilling a few requirements.
What does it need to become a Finn?, I've been thinking. Well, this list is probably full of prejudice and mainly based on what I as a foreigner think of typical Finnishness. It may not be true at all!
Some prejudice first:
- Finns are always grumpy.
- Finns are shy and don't really talk.
- Finns love to drink booze.
- Finns are good at doing music.
- Finns go to sauna completely naked and take a bath in a frozen lake thereafter.

I may add some more to the list when more comes to my mind.

Of this list, I luckily already fulfill some prerequirements. Due to my melancholic/sanguine temperament I am on a good way already to become a Finn. This temperament makes me calm, thoughtful (mostly of heavy, depressing thoughts), slighty lazy and grumpy. And I hate people. I have a natural mistrust against people I don't know. I want my peace most of the time. According to the prejudice, this is just what a perfect Finn is like - except for the being lazy part perhaps. Let's rather say... Finns use their resources in the best way. Why take the long way if you can have a short one? Okay, I take it all back: Finns are like the laziest bunch of people I ever met... Except for the Italians, which are worse.
However, I am aware of the fact that not all Finns are like that what is depicted here. Many people I got to know here are very happy and talky and partyloving people. They're outgoing and enthusastic about everything. Some of them are able to talk for hours. And sometimes I even like to talk with them along for hours! Depending on the chemistry, of course.

Last month, I started to list what I have done so far. This time, I will rather make a list of things which I have to do and comment on their completion status here.

Become a real Finn
- Be grumpy,silent and cold on the outside, but the opposite once somebody is able to break the ice. (100% completion)*
- Speak fluently Finnish. (30% completion, perhaps)
- Fall in love with Finnish music. (100% completion)
- Go to sauna, preferably naked and with an icy lake nearby. (0% completion)
- Get drunk together with Finns (and probably totally wasted thereof
). (0% completion)
- Spend a winter in the high north or see at least some northern lights in the south. (0% completion)
- Like Finnish food and drinks. (50% completion -- I'm at the moment pretty unsure what it contains. I really love Salmiakki and Fazer chocolate and Punajuurisalaatti. But there are some things I haven't tried yet. Mämmi for example. And normal dishes, not just sweets...)

This will be probably updated. Perhaps.
*= Apparently I smile too often to be a real Finn. Damn! 

What I've done so far
- I've been to a Finnish excavation.
- I've been to Helsinki (2x).
- I've been to three concerts.
- I've been to a karaoke-bar twice.
- I met a lot of Finnish and also international metalheads \m/.
- I improved my Finnish-skill a lot!
- I've been to sauna.
- I started to learn swordfighting.

What I still have to do
- Go to Tampere (planned).
- Go to Tallinn (planned).
- Go to Stockholm.
- Go to Lapland.
- Sauna more often.
- See Ruissalo.
- Visit Turku castle.
- Visit museums in Turku.
- Become a Finn. :D
- Find a Finnish boyfriend. xD


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